Formerpeopleperson ( member #85478) posted at 11:05 PM on Friday, August 29th, 2025
You say the facts are inconsistent with his character.
Are you wrong about the facts?
Then you’re wrong about his character.
So, yes. Maybe a bit of denial.
But we all have flaws in our character. And they can be overcome.
Best wishes.
It’s never too late to live happily ever after
alwayslove ( new member #86533) posted at 5:36 AM on Friday, September 5th, 2025
If you don’t have children, it’s better to leave him — he’s made the same mistakes multiple times.
MilahsRealHusband ( new member #83979) posted at 1:27 AM on Thursday, September 11th, 2025
I’m sorry you are dealing with this.
Happy to see those spouse is actually taking initiative and trying. I hope that he gets the help he needs and puts in the work to help you cope with his horrible decisions.
You must be a good catch because he’s hustling to keep you. Use it to your advantage to hold his ass accountable and get what you need in terms of guarantees and closure.