 
				    				oldtimer97 ( member #2365)		posted at 6:00 PM on Friday, March 20th, 2015	
				“When someone shows you who they are believe them; the first time.”
― Maya Angelou
To save a marriage, you must be willing to lose the marriage. 		
	 	 			 
				    				sisoon ( Moderator #31240)		posted at 10:24 PM on Wednesday, April 1st, 2015	
				fBH (me) - on d-day: 66, Married 43, together 45, same sex apDDay - 12/22/2010Recover'd and R'edYou don't have to like your boundaries. You just have to set and enforce them.		
	 	 			 
				    				Ginny ( member #43196)		posted at 9:33 PM on Thursday, April 2nd, 2015	
				BW49
FWH50
DDay 11-02-13
Married 30 years
2 month PA/EA with COW 
DS28
Trying to R		
	 	 			 
				    				Edie ( member #26133)		posted at 10:04 AM on Tuesday, April 14th, 2015	
		 			 
				    				Jpapageorge ( member #31800)		posted at 9:10 AM on Sunday, April 19th, 2015	
				"Either get busy livin' or get busy dyin'." (and I prefer to live)
"Shame on me for kissing you with my eyes closed."
Spectemur agendo.
Me: FBBF		
	 	 			 
				    				Jpapageorge ( member #31800)		posted at 8:20 AM on Monday, May 4th, 2015	
				"Either get busy livin' or get busy dyin'." (and I prefer to live)
"Shame on me for kissing you with my eyes closed."
Spectemur agendo.
Me: FBBF		
	 	 			 
				    				yearsofpain25 ( member #42012)		posted at 8:26 PM on Wednesday, May 20th, 2015	
				"I remind myself of this. I am a survivor. I have taken all this world has dished out and am still here. So there is no reason to be afraid. Whatever happens, I will survive. So now onto living. It is time for me to thrive." - DrJekyll		
	 	 			 
				    				Jpapageorge ( member #31800)		posted at 9:25 AM on Saturday, June 6th, 2015	
				"Either get busy livin' or get busy dyin'." (and I prefer to live)
"Shame on me for kissing you with my eyes closed."
Spectemur agendo.
Me: FBBF		
	 	 			 
				    				Jpapageorge ( member #31800)		posted at 10:22 AM on Saturday, July 4th, 2015	
				"Either get busy livin' or get busy dyin'." (and I prefer to live)
"Shame on me for kissing you with my eyes closed."
Spectemur agendo.
Me: FBBF		
	 	 			 
				    				yearsofpain25 ( member #42012)		posted at 8:15 PM on Friday, August 14th, 2015	
				"I remind myself of this. I am a survivor. I have taken all this world has dished out and am still here. So there is no reason to be afraid. Whatever happens, I will survive. So now onto living. It is time for me to thrive." - DrJekyll		
	 	 			 
				    				StillLivin ( member #40229)		posted at 5:30 AM on Tuesday, August 25th, 2015	
				"Bitch please a good man can't be stolen." ROFLMAO - SBB: 7/2/2014		
	 	 			 
				    				mchercheur ( member #37735)		posted at 3:00 PM on Sunday, September 6th, 2015	
				Me: BW; Him: WH --Had 10 mo. EA/ PA with COW; Dday 5/2011 Married 35 years/Together 36 years/4 kids together, and 1 grandbaby; OW 20 years younger than us/divorced no kids Trying to R; don't know what the final outcome will be		
	 	 			 
				    				Jpapageorge ( member #31800)		posted at 8:15 AM on Sunday, October 4th, 2015	
				"Either get busy livin' or get busy dyin'." (and I prefer to live)
"Shame on me for kissing you with my eyes closed."
Spectemur agendo.
Me: FBBF		
	 	 			 
				    				yearsofpain25 ( member #42012)		posted at 8:09 PM on Tuesday, October 13th, 2015	
				"I remind myself of this. I am a survivor. I have taken all this world has dished out and am still here. So there is no reason to be afraid. Whatever happens, I will survive. So now onto living. It is time for me to thrive." - DrJekyll		
	 	 			 
				    				sisoon ( Moderator #31240)		posted at 3:36 PM on Wednesday, October 28th, 2015	
				fBH (me) - on d-day: 66, Married 43, together 45, same sex apDDay - 12/22/2010Recover'd and R'edYou don't have to like your boundaries. You just have to set and enforce them.		
	 	 			 
				    				Jpapageorge ( member #31800)		posted at 10:02 AM on Saturday, November 7th, 2015	
				"Either get busy livin' or get busy dyin'." (and I prefer to live)
"Shame on me for kissing you with my eyes closed."
Spectemur agendo.
Me: FBBF		
	 	 			 
				    				sisoon ( Moderator #31240)		posted at 3:50 PM on Saturday, December 5th, 2015	
			 
	Bump. Essential reading for all. 
 
			 			fBH (me) - on d-day: 66, Married 43, together 45, same sex apDDay - 12/22/2010Recover'd and R'edYou don't have to like your boundaries. You just have to set and enforce them.		
	 	 			 
				    				yearsofpain25 ( member #42012)		posted at 10:37 PM on Thursday, December 10th, 2015	
				"I remind myself of this. I am a survivor. I have taken all this world has dished out and am still here. So there is no reason to be afraid. Whatever happens, I will survive. So now onto living. It is time for me to thrive." - DrJekyll		
	 	 			 
				    				minusone ( member #50175)		posted at 1:34 AM on Saturday, December 12th, 2015	
				"I did then what I knew how to do.  Now that I know better, I do better".   Maya Angelou		
	 	 			 
				    				devotedman ( member #45441)		posted at 4:37 PM on Friday, December 25th, 2015	
				Me: 2xBS b 1962 xWW after 2 decades, xWGF after almost 1.
Amelia Pond: Who are you?
The Doctor: I don't know yet. I'm still cooking.
ENFP-A. Huh.