heartbroken_kk ( member #22722) posted at 3:02 AM on Thursday, December 1st, 2016
FBW then 46, XWHNPDPAFTG the destroyer of my entire life. D-Day 1 '99, D-Day 2,3,4,5,6... '09-'11, D '15. I fell apart. I put myself back together. Forgiveness isn't required. I'm happy and healthy now, and MY new life is good.
Thamdelnir ( new member #56208) posted at 10:24 PM on Thursday, December 1st, 2016
I am so very scared that my WW would not agree to a lot of this. I feel that she doesn't really understand how badly this has all affected me, and how traumatized by it I am. I am so uncertain of my own senses and ability to read people that I don't trust that I'm not pushing her too far or asking too much of her.
Me: BH(40)
Her: WS(40)
3 Daughters: 13, 11, 6
M: 1/10/99
DDay 1: 10/2000, reconciled happily
DDay 2: 7/10/2016: Different guy.
DDay 3: 9/10/2016: Guy #2 again
minusone ( member #50175) posted at 11:44 AM on Tuesday, December 13th, 2016
"I did then what I knew how to do. Now that I know better, I do better". Maya Angelou
whatsleftofme ( new member #56386) posted at 12:44 AM on Monday, December 19th, 2016
Thank you so much for posting this.
Me: BS
Him: WH
Married 16, together 17
D-Day: 5/11/16
2014-2016 (PA during the summers and EA the rest of the year)
Trying to figure out what my life is now. In House Separation.
minusone ( member #50175) posted at 8:44 PM on Saturday, January 7th, 2017
"I did then what I knew how to do. Now that I know better, I do better". Maya Angelou
minusone ( member #50175) posted at 10:24 PM on Monday, January 30th, 2017
"I did then what I knew how to do. Now that I know better, I do better". Maya Angelou
heartbroken_kk ( member #22722) posted at 7:28 AM on Friday, February 10th, 2017
FBW then 46, XWHNPDPAFTG the destroyer of my entire life. D-Day 1 '99, D-Day 2,3,4,5,6... '09-'11, D '15. I fell apart. I put myself back together. Forgiveness isn't required. I'm happy and healthy now, and MY new life is good.
minusone ( member #50175) posted at 3:34 AM on Thursday, March 2nd, 2017
"I did then what I knew how to do. Now that I know better, I do better". Maya Angelou
sassylee ( member #45766) posted at 7:52 PM on Friday, March 17th, 2017
My R(eformed)WH had a 5 month EA in 2012
In my 7th year of R
“LOVE is a commitment, not an emotion. It is a conscious act of a covenant of unconditional love. It is a mindset and a thought process.” - BigHeart2018’s Professor
minusone ( member #50175) posted at 11:28 PM on Saturday, April 8th, 2017
"I did then what I knew how to do. Now that I know better, I do better". Maya Angelou
minusone ( member #50175) posted at 5:08 PM on Sunday, April 30th, 2017
"I did then what I knew how to do. Now that I know better, I do better". Maya Angelou
minusone ( member #50175) posted at 1:31 AM on Saturday, May 20th, 2017
"I did then what I knew how to do. Now that I know better, I do better". Maya Angelou
StillLivin ( member #40229) posted at 6:14 AM on Tuesday, June 6th, 2017
"Bitch please a good man can't be stolen." ROFLMAO - SBB: 7/2/2014
CharliB ( member #59007) posted at 2:10 AM on Friday, June 9th, 2017
Good advice. Thanks for posting
The truth doesn't cost you anything but a lie could cost you everything
sisoon ( Moderator #31240) posted at 4:20 PM on Monday, June 19th, 2017
fBH (me) - on d-day: 66, Married 43, together 45, same sex apDDay - 12/22/2010Recover'd and R'edYou don't have to like your boundaries. You just have to set and enforce them.
minusone ( member #50175) posted at 11:46 AM on Tuesday, July 11th, 2017
"I did then what I knew how to do. Now that I know better, I do better". Maya Angelou
Lovingmyselfmore ( member #46119) posted at 8:13 PM on Saturday, August 5th, 2017
dday: september-12-2014
Me: 42 EX: 46 gay or bisexual (go figure!) together: 12 years
Dday to 3 months: suicidal 1 year after: huge depression- 1.5 years still kind of depressed-Took me 2.5 years to be kind of happy again
minusone ( member #50175) posted at 2:28 AM on Monday, September 4th, 2017
"I did then what I knew how to do. Now that I know better, I do better". Maya Angelou
Jen ( member #26584) posted at 11:06 PM on Sunday, September 17th, 2017
Me former Booger Bear ...
https://youtu.be/1TcLw3TOIN8
Hand Me Down MatchBox 20
https://youtu.be/iFdOAyyn76M
Love Falls by HellYeah
minusone ( member #50175) posted at 12:19 AM on Thursday, October 5th, 2017
"I did then what I knew how to do. Now that I know better, I do better". Maya Angelou
