Ladybugmaam (original poster member #69881) posted at 7:04 PM on Thursday, March 12th, 2026
Ran into the OBS in my situation. Never gets easy. He pointed me to this site, which has been a godsend. I’m glad to report, he’s doing well. Even told me to tell my FWH hello from him (unironically). Wished us both well. He said, the A was a blessing in disguise for him….5 years post divorce. He’s dating someone wonderful and his children are doing well.
I’m going blame all this on the OW.
EA DD 11/2018
PA DD 2/25/19
One teen son
I am a phoenix.
BraveSirRobin ( member #69242) posted at 7:36 PM on Thursday, March 12th, 2026
Thanks for the update. So happy to hear he's doing well.
I’m going blame all this on the OW.
She really must be a piece of work if her ex feels friendly towards her AP for triggering the end of their marriage.
fareast ( Moderator #61555) posted at 7:48 PM on Thursday, March 12th, 2026
Thanks for the update. I remember him well. He seemed like a genuinely good guy and he gave his WW every opportunity to show remorse. Good to hear he is doing well.
Never bother with things in your rearview mirror. Your best days are on the road in front of you.
Ladybugmaam (original poster member #69881) posted at 8:45 PM on Thursday, March 12th, 2026
When I described her following yet again to the locker room at the gym.....he said he's "stopped trying to psychoanalyze her"....and that as long as his kids were ok, he has nothing to do with her.
EA DD 11/2018
PA DD 2/25/19
One teen son
I am a phoenix.
BackfromtheStorm ( member #86900) posted at 11:15 PM on Thursday, March 12th, 2026
I am confused if it is code that I do not understand yet or is the prosecution of a story posted somewhere else.
Anyway I believe unless the WS is truly strong enough to change, losing them it is a blessing, so he is blessed after all.
You are welcome to send me a PM if you think I can help you. I respond when I can.
BraveSirRobin ( member #69242) posted at 12:10 AM on Friday, March 13th, 2026
I am confused if it is code that I do not understand yet or is the prosecution of a story posted somewhere else.
The OP of the thread (Ladybugmaam) was introduced to SI by the BH of her husband's AP. He left the site a long time ago, but she bumped into him and gave us old timers a welcome update on his progress.
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BackfromtheStorm ( member #86900) posted at 12:22 AM on Friday, March 13th, 2026
The OP of the thread (Ladybugmaam) was introduced to SI by the BH of her husband's AP. He left the site a long time ago, but she bumped into him and gave us old timers a welcome update on his progress.
Thanks for the background!
You are welcome to send me a PM if you think I can help you. I respond when I can.
raik0 ( new member #87001) posted at 2:44 AM on Friday, March 13th, 2026
Wow, I literally just read Bahama's post and was already wondering what had happened to him since it had been a long time since he posted. I hope everything is alright for him.
Ladybugmaam (original poster member #69881) posted at 2:32 PM on Friday, March 13th, 2026
He seems to be doing really well.
EA DD 11/2018
PA DD 2/25/19
One teen son
I am a phoenix.
grubs ( member #77165) posted at 5:33 PM on Friday, March 13th, 2026
She really must be a piece of work if her ex feels friendly towards her AP for triggering the end of their marriage.
FWIW I arranged for my ex's AP to get a significant raise. Did me a favor for sure. He's since moved on to working with my ex. I cringe when I cringe at the thought with ex's OCD and narcissistic tendencies FT.
