Hurt and confused
In 2003 my fiance left me. Mostly my fault. For a week almost i tried finding her ,calling everyone we know. It turned out she was with a so called friend because she didn't know where to go. We finally talked and I promised things will be better. She will be my priority and we will get our own place. We got married , bought a house and moved . Since then it's been an amazing time. I love her deeply. She was an answer to my prayers.
I was just told by my " so called " friend that he was sleeping with her before we got married. And that she told him I was not treating her like she should be. She denies it ( obviously ) but swears to God she didn't sleep with him. He is known liar but the optics look bad. She is a good woman that believes strongly in God and goes to church. She swears under God's name she didn't sleep with him. But I'm struggling with it. Finding out the details after all these years feels like it's happening now. Details I didn't know about. Some of what he told me , she said happened but she , as previously mentioned totally denies the sexual aspect. This hurts badly. I'm confused and hurt. Since we married I know she's been loyal, but I have doubts about when she left. And it breaks my heart. What do I do ?
13 comments posted: Monday, February 24th, 2025
