LittleMonk ( new member #86661) posted at 7:03 PM on Friday, August 14th, 2026
Just a different wrinkle in the thought experiment here.
My ACE score is 5. I think my wife's is like 2 or 3...
Most of the "perfect storm" was centered on me, not my wife.
Was her experience different? Yes... I would say mine was arguably worse, yet I made different choices.
GotTheMorbs ( member #86894) posted at 8:22 PM on Friday, August 14th, 2026
I'm sorry the discussion you started went so off track and for my part in it, Asterisk. I understand how incredibly frustrating that can be. I will try to do better with listening more closely before responding in the future.
[This message edited by GotTheMorbs at 8:23 PM, Friday, August 14th]
I'm not arguing... I'm calibrating
Pogre ( member #86173) posted at 12:52 AM on Saturday, August 15th, 2026
Just a different wrinkle in the thought experiment here.
My ACE score is 5. I think my wife's is like 2 or 3...
Most of the "perfect storm" was centered on me, not my wife.
Was her experience different? Yes... I would say mine was arguably worse, yet I made different choices.
I also scored a 5.
My wife got a zero...
Where am I going... and why am I in this handbasket?
GotTheMorbs ( member #86894) posted at 2:18 AM on Saturday, August 15th, 2026
I think comparing yourselves like that is pointless
I'm not arguing... I'm calibrating
LittleMonk ( new member #86661) posted at 4:58 AM on Saturday, August 15th, 2026
I think comparing yourselves like that is pointless
Isn't that the entire premise?
GotTheMorbs ( member #86894) posted at 6:14 AM on Saturday, August 15th, 2026
I am trying very hard to refrain from being rude.
I'm not arguing... I'm calibrating
