SatyaMom (original poster member #83919) posted at 11:45 AM on Thursday, December 18th, 2025
After two years of this nonsense…..I am seriously considering a move for 6-12 months to Portugal! I used to live in Europe so it feels like home. I need a break, quiet alone time and I’m seriously ready to just go! Anyone else done anything like this?
BearlyBreathing ( member #55075) posted at 2:18 PM on Thursday, December 18th, 2025
I went to Bali for a month :-) I could only leave for a month but I found a change in latitude helped change my attitude. My problems did not go away but I spent the time doing LOTS of yoga, meditating, reading, exploring, swimming, and seeking spiritual experiences. It reminded me of the opportunities and living I still had ahead of me. It was nice not to see all those triggers every day. But there were moments of profound loneliness and I worked through those, which was helpful.
It was healing, but I also worked hard while there to heal.
Me: BS 57 (49 on d-day)Him: *who cares ;-) *. D-Day 8/15/2016 LTA. Kinda liking my new life :-)
**horrible typist, lots of edits to correct. :-/ **
SatyaMom (original poster member #83919) posted at 8:54 PM on Friday, December 19th, 2025
Oh I love Bali! Been there twice …..but for me too far away long term….I have duly children in NYC and DC. I’m pretty excited about this
Justsomeguy ( member #65583) posted at 11:57 PM on Sunday, December 21st, 2025
I've spent many nights scrolling through properties in Portugal. Sounds exciting.
I'm an oulier in my positions.
Me:57 STBXWW:55 DD#1: false confession of EA Dec. 2016. False R for a year.DD#2: confessed to year long PA Dec. 2 2017 (was about to be outed)Called it off and filed. Denied having an affair in court papers.
Divorced
